Automatic merge from submit-queue
use monotonic now in TestDelNode
Fixes https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/24971.
Briefly, the rate_limited_queue uses a `container/heap` to store values, and use this data structure to ensure we can always fetch the value with the minimum `processAt`. However, in some extreme condition, the continuous call to `time.Now()` would get the same value, which causes some unpredictable order in the queue, this fix uses a monotonic `now()` to avoid that.
@smarterclayton please take a look.
A lot of packages use StringSet, but they don't use anything else from
the util package. Moving StringSet into another package will shrink
their dependency trees significantly.