Prevent executing of several actions (e.g. mail, send-mail etc) on restart (bans were already notified).
Test cases extended (smtp and by restart in ServerReloadTest).
Closes gh-1141
Closes gh-921
added helper "action.d/helpers-common.conf", and `_grep_logs` part-command for actions needed grep logs from multiple log-files
test cases: executing of some complex actions covered
* 'grep-m1k' of github.com:szepeviktor/fail2ban:
Limit the number of log lines in *-lines.conf actions
Conflicts:
ChangeLog -- took both versions and adjusted the new one
for -n 1000 change
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