catalog, mesh: implement missing ACL hooks (#19143)
This change adds ACL hooks to the remaining catalog and mesh resources, excluding any computed ones. Those will for now continue using the default operator:x permissions.
It refactors a lot of the common testing functions so that they can be re-used between resources.
There are also some types that we don't yet support (e.g. virtual IPs) that this change adds ACL hooks to for future-proofing.
Co-authored-by: Iryna Shustava <ishustava@users.noreply.github.com>